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| photo credit: Mr. Amari Soul (author of Reflections Of A Man) |
I was browsing the news feed on my Facebook account and was able to read across a statement by Mr. Amari Soul:
"Sometimes, him being the wrong man isn't the real problem. The real problem is you deciding to give him a chance, knowing he's the wrong man, thinking you can change him."
We, ladies have this tendency to fall over our emotions with the assumption that we can change the person.
We know from the first start that if we pursue the relationship, it would later go the wrong way. But when emotions have already swayed us, who can stop us?
Jeremiah 17:9 clearly says that
"The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?"
It really pays to adhere wisdom over our emotions since our relationships could either build us up or tear us down. We are told to guard our hearts for it determine the course of our lives. (Proverbs 3:4)
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